Maraming tao ang nabubuhay sa pakikialam ng buhay ng iba. It’s because they can’t deal with their own life and so they’re trying to interrogate one’s life. It makes them comfortable to know that her life is worse than theirs.
Hindi naman natin maiiwasan na mapag-usapan ng ibang tao dahil nagkalat talaga ang mga walang magawa sa buhay. You’ll never know until you heard it from someone close to you. Mas masakit kung ang tsismis na ito ay gawa ng taong malapit sayo.
After hearing all those talks about you… you will end up being pathetic because you are being judged into someone you’re not. Then it’s either you take it positively or negatively. You could just smile and prove to them that they’re wrong, or you could just ponder and feel sorry for yourself. We made our choices in dealing with something, and we decide for ourselves.
Stand firm. Take courage. Have faith. Move on. And leave it all to God. He knows you more than they do. Paguusapan ka lang nila, but they can’t talk to you face to face. They will judge you, pero hindi ka naman nila tunay na kilala. But God, He will always be with you – reminding you that you are one of His beautiful creations and you are His daughter. Let no one take you down, for you have One that will take them down.
Claim His words…
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.”
— Romans 12:14
And never seek for vengeance. Hindi ito makakabuti sayo, sa halip lalo ka lang nilang huhusgahan. Kasi parang pinatunayan mo na rin sa kanila na ganung klaseng tao ka nga. Just let it past and pray for them.
“17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.” — Romans 12:17-19